Timing

Some things in life are planned and you can see them coming, others not so much, they sneak up and surprise you.  Even seeing it coming, I don't think I truly thought it was going to happen.  My grandmother passed away early Sunday morning and yes we knew it was coming, but it still hit me hard Sunday morning when I found out.  I think no matter how long we have to prepare for losses in any capacity, it still comes as a shock.  For me, a loss reminds me to live my life to the fullest and surround myself with people I love.